Honest Admission Through Vulnerability

Hey friends,

Today, I want to dive into something deeply transformative—something that can enrich our lives and those around us in profound ways. It’s about the power of honesty and humility in admitting our wrongs to one another. This isn’t just a moral exercise or a way to get back into God’s good graces. It’s much more than that. It’s about having a human encounter that changes lives, often forever.

Honest Admission

When we honestly and humbly confess our mistakes to one another, we create moments of genuine human connection. These encounters are transformative, enriching both parties involved. They move beyond the pursuit of moral purity or seeking “divine favor”, allowing us to experience God’s love directly through the grace and understanding of others.

Think about it. When was the last time you admitted a mistake or a wrong you’ve done, not just to yourself, but to another person? It’s terrifying, isn’t it? Our egos hate being exposed. But in that moment of vulnerability, something incredible happens. We connect on a deeply human level. We see each other’s imperfections and, in doing so, we also see each other’s

I found myself in a situation where I had to admit a significant error I had made to a colleague. I was scared of being judged or dismissed. But instead, my colleague responded with empathy and understanding. That moment not only deepened our professional relationship but also enriched my own journey of self-acceptance and humility.

The Encounter with God’s Love

Admitting our wrongs is not just about the human connection. It’s also about encountering God’s love in a very real and tangible way. When we strip away our defenses and stand naked in our truth, we experience grace. It’s no longer about being morally pure or perfect. It’s about being real and letting God’s love wash over us through the acceptance and understanding of another person.

Practical Steps to Embrace Vulnerability

So, how do we start this journey of honest admission? Here are a few practical steps:

1. Find a Trusted Person: Choose someone who you trust and who you know will respond with empathy. This could be a friend, a family member, or a spiritual counselor.

2. Be Specific: When you admit your wrongs, be specific. Don’t generalize or minimize your actions. This honesty is what makes the encounter powerful.

3. Embrace the Fear: It’s natural to feel scared. Acknowledge that fear and do it anyway. The courage to be vulnerable is what transforms the experience.

4. Listen and Receive: When the other person responds, listen. Don’t interrupt or defend yourself. Just receive their empathy and understanding.

The Ripple Effect

When we embrace this practice, we not only transform our own lives but also create a ripple effect. Our vulnerability encourages others to be vulnerable. Our honesty fosters honesty in others. And in this shared humanity, we build a community grounded in love, understanding, and grace.

So, let’s take a step today towards honest admission. Let’s embrace our imperfections and allow ourselves to be seen. In doing so, we’ll have a human encounter that not only enriches our own lives but also brings us closer to God’s love.

This journey isn’t about achieving perfection. It’s about being real, being human, and experiencing the transformative power of vulnerability.

Until next time, keep embracing your journey.

With Love,

Gene Quiocho

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